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What Does A Girl Really Want In A Guy?

What Does A Girl Really Want In A Guy
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I was having lunch with two of my coolest female friends when i asked them, “what does a girl really want in a guy?”

Laura, the more vocal of them lifted her head and asked, “Do you really want to know?” I answered in the affirmative and she said;

What Does A Girl Really Want In A Guy?
Sense of Humor

I’ve never met a single guy who was very funny. (Sheila the other friend nearly chocked on her food).

African American couple laughing and smiling.

Either physical or emotional. Preferably both. Some girls like “gentle giants” though.


Most girls I know are super attracted to smart guys. (myself included) And if the guy is really gorgeous but dumb as a door knob, the girls get over them quickly.


Yes, some girls are attracted to jerks. But they’re a masochistic minority. Most prefer a guy who could be nice to their mom and puppies.

What Does A Girl Really Want In A Guy
Show Kindness
Good Hygiene

That’s a given. No one wants to smell too much body odor and see hairs growing out of your nose. Please. (You should see her facial expression)


Most girls are turned off by players. We were all raised on the fairy tales where prince and princess lived happily ever after, not where he texted his side chick.


I know, guys are human too. You have your moments where you’re intimidated or unsure. But brave men are inherently attractive.


A girl wants that the guy to be really into her. Sometimes if a guy is aloof and cold, you’ll have some masochist girls taking it as a challenge. But most girls will just be turned off.

What Does A Girl Really Want In A Guy

These, on top of my mind my dear Elorm is what i know girls really want in a guy. I asked her what about money? She replied, “that is a discussion for another day young man”.

Here you have it guys, these are “what does a girl really want in a guy”

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