I’d be delighted to answer this. Do you want to know why so many decent people are single these days? From external stimuli fucking up their perception of reality! 3 of them in particular. I can explain….
Choice of Options
WHY DECENT PEOPLE ARE SINGLE
The false reality. Well both social and movies are false reality but movies are on another level. You see those love stories and the guy waking her up to a cup of coffee and breakfast in the perfect all white room with the most perfect words to say?
The shit isn’t like that in real life. It’s nowhere close to it. Yes we can ohhh and ahhh when we see movies like The Notebook but some women take that and run with it and think that’s how relationships are.
You see the time he went to pick her up in his Jeep with a bundle of flowers and they go to a fucking cliff and sit on the edge and have a damn picnic while watching the sunset smiling and happy? Shit ain’t real. Let that go. You’ll probably be on the couch with one another in your underwear talking about work.
Yes, at first the butterflies and cute stuff will happen but what happens after the honeymoon stage? I know. People break up! Why? Because relationships aren’t all glitter and gold and lots of sex and flowers and candy. Most can’t go through the talks and hard times to even stay together.
Choice of Options:
Back in the day, no, we didn’t have access to anyone. We only had access to the ones who we come across in person. Options were limited. Yes there were still pools to choose from but we are talking 12 compared to 13,000,000. You can go online and have access to anyone you’d like.
Your guy isn’t acting right? Oh okay, he looks like he can do this job better so I’ll contact him and see what’s up. My girl isn’t acting right? It’s okay, I can go on Instagram and grab whoever I like. We have become DISPOSABLE. My girl don’t want to fuck me? Okay, I can hit up someone’s DM. I can go on a dating site and grab a quick fuck. Whatever it is, we have access to too many damn people!!!!
When we get in arguments, we no longer fight for something we love. We no longer resolve issues. Our first contact with an issue BOOM, it’s over.
Now, the most dangerous of them all….
It’s fake. It’s all fake. You know how you see a happy couple for 2 months then all of a sudden out of the blue BOOM, they post a break up post? Yeah, because all that cute shit they would post online is all fake. People do it for reasons that aren’t beneficial to the relationship especially women.
Women do it to say “hey, I have a cute guy and I’ve finally found love so cheer me on!!!” Like, why do you need to post about you two anyway? What good is that doing? None. He knows you love him by how you portray that in the confines of your own home. No need to post it.
When I had social, I RARELY posted my fiancee and I. Why? Because I don’t need likes and approvals from anyone. She knows I love her by my ACTIONS! I didn’t need to post her on social media. It’s all a stunt these days. No ones truthful. It’s all about “who can display the best life”.
FIGHT FOR WHAT YOU LOVE! People aren’t disposable. We only want to be loved and cherished. We want to feel important. That’s all us humans want! LOL