I hope you’ve seen the video of a woman going after a supposed side chic of her husband and here’s my take on it.
Are side chics destroyers of marriages?
A woman has spent her health both mentally and physically, she’s spent her life holding up a family sometimes not even for herself but for her children because she wants them to grow up in a stable environment, then you present yourself as a threat to that and expect her not to come after you. You’re mad.
There’s no need for any explanations or deep explanations. She has all the right to come after you and go after her husband if she so chooses. Humans like most primates are territorial animals and if you dare show your face in their territory, they’ll come after you.
Only the madness in your head that’s warping your sense of reason will make you feel she has no right to come after you and try to shame you. You don’t know her struggles, you don’t know what she’s going through, she’s highly emotional and will go after anyone she deems fit, you included.
Whether it is right or not does not matter, people have the benefit of being outside the matter and it not affecting them in anyway, that’s why it is easy to give commentary like “leave the girl alone”.
The girl is a threat and should not be left alone. What she decides to do with her husband, she’ll do at home. But its is not easy to just up and leave a marraige, not after you have spent 20 years in it.
If she decides to fight for it instead, then it is her prerogative and if she decides to fight for it by dragging the concubine and fellow adulterer (because side chic is too bougie) then I for one support it. Agreeing to date a married man has its consequences and one of them being you might get dragged when your secret gets out.
Same husband might not be leaving money at home for house keeping, but he’s buying you iPhones because he wants unbridled access to your anal canal. Same man probably neglecting children but will rent you an apartment because he wants to be able to insert his phallus in your faecal exit.
You want to do shameful things which you’re not proud to project in the public but the immunity against such things. No. The world doesn’t work like that. There are repercussions for your actions and one of them is you might be beaten to pulp by a emotional and furious wife. Accept it and move on.
There’s no such thing as leave the girl (side chic) alone. She put herself in that position by not rejecting the advances of an unfaithful married man. She should deal with the consequences.
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