If a girl says NO, remind her that “no means no” so if her intention is to make you convince her, that you will not. Then step back. If she wants you, let her come to you, if she doesn’t, let it be. Take pride in your masculinity.
Be a man, not a rapist!
Not being able to attract a woman means you’re a loser. Maybe you’re even able to attract women but not the kind you really want, then you need to work on your life and elevate yourself to the level where you can attract the kind of women that you want.
Nothing says loser like rapist. Nothing says weakling like forcing yourself on a woman that doesn’t want you. And sex is not worth losing your life over. Men have always taken pride in being the protector. If a woman doesn’t feel safe around you, that’s nothing to be proud about.
Being a man means you’re a safe place. That’s basically it. That you can provide, you can claim your own and you can protect. This job of protection is not just for your sisters or the people related to you. It means anyone that needs your help or protection, that’s what is masculine.
That is why some of us are willing to fight for it because we believe in our role and we play it even when we are not appreciated or noticed for it. There’s no bigger man than a man that’s able to control his urges, no winner man that one that doesn’t lie for sex.
You need a special level of self confidence for that, and that is what you should aspire to and just have nature will have it, women are naturally attracted to such men. This means, if you work on yourself and elevate yourself, you’re able to provide and you are seen as a safe place. Women will be naturally attracted to you.
Some of us have to take pride in these things because that’s all we know, we don’t want incels ruining this. Women shouldn’t have to beg to be safe. Anywhere there’s a man, the women should feel safer for his sake and not feel in more danger. If you’re not the kind of man that inspires that, then you have a lot of work to do.
When a woman wants you, there’s no better feeling than that. The reason we exist is for eachother and our primordial instincts still go back to doing stuff to attract eachother.
Rape is not about power, the kind of men who rape are weaklings, there’s no bigger weakling. I hate that rhetoric. Not being able to attract who you want and having to force yourself on her being about power will never make sense to me.
Not everyone will want you and that’s fine. Dealing with the harsher realities of life is why God created you with a more logical mind. You should be able to rationalize that fact to yourself and tell yourself that it is okay to not be attractive to everyone.
I can go on like this for hours. Some things are beyond banter and rape is one of them because it is too serious to be joked about which is also why there are clear lines drawn around it. You can’t simply claim you got carried away and found yourself inside that line.
That shit will not fly.
All men must be safe places. To your friends, to your female acquittance even to strangers. You job is to protect. Rape is the opposite of that and immediately you commit rape. You strip yourself of the right to be called a man.
It is your job to know right from wrong and defend what you know to be right even if it’ll make you enemies. We all have a greater calling which we should aspire to and the closer you get to your greater calling, the more attractive you become to all humans alike.
Look at everyone who is seen as a rockster in their fields, people who have found their purpose, people who are great at what they do. We all love them, we are naturally attracted to such. We stay away from losers on the other hand. Rapists are losers.
Be a man, not a rapist.
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