The thing about trust be say although e dey take time to build, e no dey take too much to lose am.
E often dey take some time to warm up give another person completely, wey for some, e fit even be difficult to let dema guard easily.
Once you fit achieve trust dier, they fit love truly plus trust deeply. Woman or man wey fall in love go make excuses give you when you no dey get am right, they fit stand by you when you no dey fit find your feet and dey there for you when you dey need someone wey you go lean on.
But the thing about trust be say although e dey take time to build, e no dey take too much to lose am. While your partner fit give you a long leash sake of the love dem have give you, some things dey you for avoid so say you no go abuse that trust.
Some of those 5 things wey we list below;
Make You Avoid Situations That Dey Require Apologies
A good partner go recognize that dem have roles, duties plus responsibilities, wey dem go act accordingly. That way you e no dey need say you go apologizes for disappointing your beloved.
If you fit build a habit of doing things wey dem dey expect say you go do plus livingup to to your promises, you fit be sure to never lose your partner ein belief for your inside.
Make You No Be Unapologetic
Sometimes things dey occur beyond wonna control. When these uncontrollable things happen wey e affect your ability to deliver on a promise made or e cause some actions wey normally you no go take, make you be apologetic enough then san give accurate explanations for why you no fit to do what you say you go do, or for why you did what you for no do.
Make You No Be A Many-Faced God
For one hand, this deyspeak of the level of honesty you go needtopracticee plus your partner at all times. No lies, no ‘convenient’ forgetfulness when you for dey tell them certain truth about certain things.
On the flipside, e also dey mean your character dey need to be same for everywhere, around everybody. Imagine say you for dey change your personality around the different groups of people you dey belong in.
For here you be religious and full of good morals, for another place you be free and full of loose talk. That be being double-faced and a partner who notices this go have issues trusting you completely.
You Dey Keep Trusted Private Stuff Private?
If you be quick to share every sensitive secret wey dem tell you to him or her, e no go be long before dem dey start to wonder if dema own secrets be even safe plus you?
Make we talk say this level of openness may be forgiven and tagged as ‘lover’s privilege,’ the next question go be; you dey treat dema secrets plus the utmost confidence, or you dey make am topic of gist amongst your paddies?
How You Dey Talk About People You Dey ‘Care’ About
You dey say bad things about people you dey ‘care’ about behind dema backs? You dey belittle them plus make them sound or look like nothing when dem no dey there?
This fit also affect the way dem dey see you, plus the amount of trust your partner go have for your inside.
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