3 Secret Red Flags about Dating a Girl in the Hook up Era

We are precious entities and not worthless for grabs with ease so take note of the red flags” – A Letter from a Girl to the Fuck Boys.

Welcome to the world of the millennial and Generation Z where I like you means I love you and a hangout at McDonald’s or KFC eating a big tasty burger meal qualifies as an investment for a relationship.

We may live in the era of hook ups but some girls still believe in old fashioned relationship code of ethics. If a lady gives you the opportunity to woo her consider it a privilege and work at it.

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There may be some girls out there who are ready to lower standards just to be labelled a “girlfriend”.

Red flag #1 – Don’t be all Touchy
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Being touchy is the number one red flag though some of guys consider it a trait of affection. Once you are all touchy on a casual hangout you emit the signal of “I’m here for the body”. Engage in a conversation of trying to know the lady you fancy with meaning questions to know how emotionally available she is and not how sexual available she is.

Red flag #2 – Don’t Coerce Her to Tell you Her Past!
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Stop rushing the process and slow down with questions that pry into her private life at the beginning of getting to know her. Instead make her feel comfortable being around you and she’ll open up giving you all the answers you seek.

Red flag #3- I am a Girl not a Feminist!
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Avoid the feminist talk and how girls of these days are not ready to submit and meeting men halfway to build relationships. She won’t be hanging out with you if she wasn’t ready, so hush it!

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Well, that’s from her lady’s perception! Want to know what my guys think? Do you agree with her on these red flags? Share your thoughts in the comment box below or on our Facebook Page or with #afrosages.

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